Some people pick up an apple, see that it has a little bruise on it and throw it away because it’s a ‘bad apple’.
Other people pick up the same apple, see the little bruise, cut it off, and enjoy a delicious, juicy snack.
We all carry little bruises. And if we go looking for bruises in others, we’ll see them. And then we miss out on all the other wonderful bits that are beautiful and whole. What a waste!